02/03/2015

Niin Kauan, Isoäiti

I knew in one point, I have to cope with the death, again. I will no longer sitting next to her in the hospital at midnight, witnessing her with my blurred eyes. I will no longer surrounded by the medical equipments and the beeping sound and being petrified if the screen shows the straight line. I could visualize my father crying for his death mother at the funeral.

Perhaps that explains why I never said ‘Get Well Soon’ at the first place. I knew it would be the biggest lie for this kind of situation. Wishing her to get better soon is an irony. She is dying. Everyone will eventually die. And we all here just waiting for the end to come. Hearts beaten fast. Sweats soaked up the faces. Fear haunted the souls.

At midnight, I always scrutinized my phone. To make sure that there was no text that came to my phone to inform me that she is gone. The message was never shown up. Yet the news was spreading as quick as the sadness filled my heart. She was gone.

I never liked the flowers. It reminds me of death. Funny how such beautiful things bounded with the death. Flowers rimmed me everywhere I went. Sadness were levitating around the atmosphere that morning. Between the tears I saw faces I rarely see. Cousins, elders, friends, neighbours, they were all here. Probably this is the reason why she left us alone.

No, we are not alone. We have each other. She united us with her death. The death found its way to show its beautiful side. Was this the reason why I saw her smiling in her eternal sleep? Because she realized her vocation was complete, and she is now enjoying her prize for the triumph. In heaven.

And I found myself sinked in my own confusion. I still could hear her voice recited in my ears. I still could feel her appearance amongst us. But as the sobs were getting louder, I realized it was just my imagination. Reality slapped me one more time. She is gone. Left me with regrets and sadness.

But why her? Why now? But then again, I asked myself again. Why not now? She said she couldn’t endure the pain anymore. She was tortured by the disease. And she wanted to go. But she made herself numb, and wait for another moment. Until all of her loved ones came and see her. But now she saw them all. She kept them in her head. And she was taking away the memories of the faces of the one that she loves. And we are here. Reciting endless prayers for her. To finally let her go. Goodbye.